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You’re sitting in your office, staring at the performance review you need to write. The department head across the hall has been declining for months. Reports are late. Quality has slipped. Their team is compensating, and it’s showing in their morale.
You know exactly what needs to be said. But you’ve been putting off this conversation for six weeks.
MLDC Book of the Week: “Just Listen” by Mark Goulston
You prepared for three hours. Your presentation is solid. The data supports every recommendation. Your proposal will save money, improve service delivery, and solve a real problem.
Fifteen minutes into the meeting, you watch it die.
Not because the proposal is flawed. Not because the numbers don’t work. But because three council members decided they weren’t interested before you finished your opening remarks.
You’ve been avoiding the conversation with that department head for three months now. You know the performance isn’t where it needs to be. You’ve hinted. You’ve suggested. You’ve hoped the issue would somehow resolve itself. Meanwhile, the rest of your leadership team is watching, adjusting their expectations, and learning that accountability is optional.
Or maybe it’s the opposite problem. You finally had the conversation, but it went sideways. You got defensive when they pushed back. The tension escalated. Now the relationship is damaged and the performance issue still isn’t resolved.
You wake up at 5:30 AM to clear your inbox before the chaos starts. By 9:00, you’ve already solved problems for three different department heads. Your afternoon is back-to-back meetings where everyone looks to you for answers. You leave at 6:30 PM, exhausted, knowing your team will need you just as much tomorrow.
Here’s the uncomfortable truth: you’re not struggling because you’re bad at your job. You’re struggling because you’re too good at solving everyone else’s problems.
You hired someone with an impressive resume. Great credentials. Solid experience. Stellar references. All the technical skills your department needed.
Six months later, you’re dealing with frustrated staff, damaged relationships, and declining morale. Despite their qualifications, this person is making your team worse, not better.
This is the bleeding neck problem facing local government leaders across North America: we’ve gotten really good at hiring for competence, but we’ve forgotten to hire for character.
You’ve done everything right.
Competitive salaries. Solid benefits. Regular recognition at staff meetings. Department appreciation events. You even advocated for their budget increases at council.
Yet another resignation letter lands on your desk. The exit interview says the same thing you’ve heard before: “I didn’t feel appreciated.”
You’re frustrated. You’re confused. And honestly? You’re a little angry. Because you do appreciate them. You’ve been showing it. Or so you thought.
Here’s the problem: You’re speaking a language your team doesn’t understand.
You prepared thoroughly for the budget meeting. Your analysis was comprehensive, your recommendations sound, your presentation logical. The department heads nodded in agreement.
Then the community activists arrived at the public hearing.
They didn’t want your methodical breakdown of fiscal constraints. They wanted acknowledgment of their concerns. Connection. Urgency. Your analytical approach, the one that works perfectly in administrative settings, now created distance when you needed engagement.
Same leader. Same preparation. Wrong dimensional approach.
You know those mornings when optimism feels impossible. The budget constraints keep tightening. Your best department head just gave notice. Council is questioning your judgment. Community expectations continue rising while your resources keep shrinking.
Some days, keeping your glass half full feels like the hardest part of leadership.
You hired good people. You know they’re capable. So why does your talented team seem disengaged during strategic planning but energized during crisis response?
Why do some council meetings leave you feeling drained while others fuel your enthusiasm for the work? Why does that department head who’s brilliant at operations struggle to build support for new initiatives?
Here’s the breakthrough: It’s not about competence. It’s about alignment.
Are you exhausted from trying to be everything to everyone?
Do you feel like you’re supposed to be a budget wizard, crisis communication expert, strategic visionary, and community relations master all rolled into one superhuman city manager?
Are your best people leaving because they’re tired of being told to fix their weaknesses instead of using their strengths?
